Who Was Cain's wife?

Then God said, "let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness;

let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air;

and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that

creeps on the earth.

So God created man in His own image; in the image of God

He created him; Male and Female He created them.

Genesis 1:26-27

And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground,

and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became

a living being.

Genesis 2:7

And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and

he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place.

Then the rib which the LORD God had taken from man He made into a woman,

and He brought her to the man.

Genesis 2:21-22

And Adam called his Wife's name Eve, because she was the mother of all

living.

Genesis 3:20

So I've been reading "Answers book 1" by Ken Ham,

he gives biblical answers to questions that most atheists or

even Christians themselves have (Good book).

I never really questioned myself, how man was created, to me personally

I always thought evolution (the opposite side of the proverbial coin) sounded

completely moronic( even when I wasn't a follower of Christ)

To me coming from apes or ooze or some random act of millions of years

just didn't make any freakin sense whatsoever, in fact it still doesn't.

Some Christians do tend to mix humanism and evolutionary thinking

and try to mix it with their believe system, but really you can't do that with the

word of God, you either take it for what it says/means or you don't, you can't

read into scripture and twist words around to make it fit whatever preconceived

notions you have.

Now I thought I would talk about Adam and Eve and their children,

simply because it is after all rather important to have a BIBLICAL understanding.

I don't think any Christian really questions Adam and Eve, a major question

that does arise however is WHERE did Cain's wife come from? Everyone

knows the story of Cain and Abel two of the children from Adam and Eve,

we all know Cain kills Abel out of jealousy and then it says Cain

is marked by God because Cain was scared people would kill him for what he

did to Able...

Surely You have driven me out this day from the face of the ground;

I shall be hidden from Your face; I shall be a fugitive and a vagabond on

the earth, and it will happen that anyone who finds me will kill me"

Cain to God- Genesis 4:14

first of all...what people? there were only Adam and Eve all human beings

came from Adam and Eve..right? the bible it self in Genesis 3:20 says

Eve was mother of all living, The word of God doesn't contradict itself,

humans surely contradict the word though.

Then Cain went out from the presence of the LORD and dwelt in the land

of NOD on the east of Eden. And Cain knew his wife, and she conceived and

bore Enoch.

Genesis 4:16

So lets think about this, Cain was scared of "other people" and it also

says Cain and his wife "knew each-other"(In bible terms "had sex") and

they had a son named Enoch. I know when I was reading Genesis , every time

I got to that part about Cain dwelling in the land of Nod and "knowing his wife"

I was like, wait a second what wife? and where did she come from?

was his wife in NOD? did God create other people before or after Adam and Eve?

then I'd be like "meh whatever..." and continued reading, it really wasn't something

that I struggled with or something that made me question my faith, however

for plenty of people that and many other things cause problems, hence

why I started reading the book.

First lets establish the fact that NO.. God didn't create other human beings,

God Created Adam the FIRST MAN, and EVE the FIRST WOMAN,

and through them a genealogy was formed. As Romans says

Therefore, just as through one man(Adam) sin entered the world,

and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men

Romans 5:12

And so it is written, "The first man Adam became a living being."

The last Adam(Jesus Christ) became a life-giving spirit.

1 Corinthians 15:45

All men/woman of the world are descendants of Adam that is

how sin entered into the world and that is why we are all sinners,

who have no way of saving ourselves, we are wicked and if it wasn't

for the last adam (Christ) we all would get what we truly deserve

and that is eternal separation from God, obviously if it wasn't for Christ

we couldn't even begin to have the relationship we have with Christ.

We sin because Adam sinned, it is all we know..we are fallible creatures.

The bible makes it clear we all must come from Adam and Eve it is

how creation started, and again it says Eve was mother of all living..

For since by man [came] death, by man [came] also the

resurrection of the dead. For as in Adam all die, even so in

Christ shall all be made alive.

1 Corinthians 15:21-22

And He has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the face of the earth, and has determined their preappointed times and the boundaries of their dwellings,

Acts 17:26

Can't stress enough how the bible states we all come from one fallible

man and that man being Adam. Now back to the issue with Cain's wife

we don't even read her name, we don't read about Adam and Eve having daughters, in fact the only names we get for Adam and Eve's Children

are Cain,Abel(who gets killed), and Seth( who the bible says is born after

the death of Abel)

And Adam knew his wife again, and she bore a son and named him Seth,

"for God has appointed another seed for me instead of Abel, whom Cain

killed."

Genesis 4:25

And Adam lived one hundred and thirty years, and begot a son in his

own likeness, after his image, and named him Seth. After he begot Seth,

the days of Adam were eight hundred years; and he had sons and daughters.

Genesis 5:3-4

So as you read in Genesis you do see Adam and Eve had daughters,

and more sons then just the three names that are given. In

fact the Jewish historian Josephus wrote that Adam and Eve

had 33 sons and 23 daughters.Now scripture itself doesn't say how many children total were born to them BUT Adam and Eve were commanded in

Genesis to be fruitful and multiply and we see ADAM lived 930 years,

yes...930 flippin years, plenty of time for ALOT of baby making.

So we don't know exactly when Cain married BUT we do know it was before

he went to the land of NOD(hence he didn't go to the land of NOD to get

married for he already was married) and two we know Seth(considered

Abel's replacement) was born when Adam was 130, more then likely

Cain and Able were 100 or more years old when Cain killed Abel hence

plenty of time for Adam and Eve to have had more children in that

time period and for their children's Children to marry and have Children of their own. For in Genesis before Cain kills Abel we read

"And in the process of time it came to pass"

Genesis 4:3

Now of course most people at this point are like...

"Wait a minute so sisters and brothers married?" uh..doesn't God say

that's wrong? indeed he did say that(it's wrong to marry close relatives), but God didn't say that until Moses(Leviticus 18-20)and by that time(thousands of years later) the earth would be populated that you wouldn't have to marry a close relative. It's only obvious if you GO by biblical account that the first generation would have to marry and have children with sisters and or close relatives.

This is probably another issue where people just put the pieces together

and say "well obviously Adam and Eve had a daughter whom Cain married"

but then they say to themselves "that would mean that's his sister and God says thats is wrong and so this doesn't make sense."

It's how life started at first, if all are descendants of Adam like the bible

itself says, it's how it would have to start. Further more like what I stated,

it wasn't wrong until God told Moses it was wrong and that some years later.

So hence if we go by the Bible we see Seth/Cain married close relations

because frankly that would be their only choice, we also see that Adam and Eve had sons AND daughters and we just only read about Seth/Cain and Abel. So we know where Cain got his wife and we know why

after he killed Abel he was scared "others" would kill him, obviously

because Adam and Eve had other children and there children had children

before Abel died and they would be relatives of Abel and would want to

kill Cain for killing Abel.

Now yet another issue some may bring up would be the fact by todays

standards if you had a child with a close relative there is a very good

chance that child would have some kind of deformity, and that is actually

a really good point. HOWEVER Adam and Eve were perfect creations in the

image of God, no defects...no anything..absolutely perfect until they sinned

and brought sin into the world, so if you think about it Adam and Eve and

their children wouldn't have received any imperfect genes, the effects of

sin were not fully formed they were minimal at that point and time, but

by the time of Moses the effects of the fall would have been much greater

so there would be a reason for God to forbid close relative marriages.

Let GOD and His word interpret your thoughts..

NOT

Your thoughts interpret GOD and His word.

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